Baby and Toddler Sleep Cues

Baby and Toddler Sleep Cues

Next up on the blog are Slumber & Sprouts tips on understanding sleep cues. They’ve put together a handy table so that you can work out the signs of when your baby or toddler is getting tired, when they are ready to sleep and the part that we all want to avoid – the overtired signs.

When it comes to easier settles, timing really is everything. And when we talk about timing a baby’s or toddlers sleep perfectly it means taking into consideration their age appropriate awake windows but also their sleep cues. When we use those two things in conjunction with each other we can avoid overtired little ones.

When timing is good most little ones will generally go to sleep easier and sleep better. An overtired baby or toddler though, with too much cortisol and adrenaline, can become too upset and/or fussy, making falling asleep and staying asleep hard for them – and we don’t want that.

There are 3 stages to sleep cues:

Stage 1: Baby or toddler is starting to get tired⁠
⁠Stage 2: Baby or toddler needs to go down to sleep⁠
⁠Stage 3: Baby or toddler has missed their ideal sleep window and is overtired⁠ 

So what can you look for to know if your little one is sleep ready? Below are some signs that you might you see in each sleepy cue stage.

BABY SLEEP CUES

Baby is starting to get tired

Baby needs to go down to sleep

Baby has missed their ideal sleep window and is overtired

Pink Eyebrows

Starts rubbing eyes

A very upset baby

Starts staring and zoning out

Yawning

Arching back

Loses interest in toys and people

Getting a little fussy

Difficult to settle & resisting sleep

 

Rubbing/pulling at the face/ears

Clingy and needing more comfort than usual

 

 

Rigid

 

 

 

 

TODDLER SLEEP CUES

 

Toddler is starting to get tired

Toddler needs to go down to sleep

Toddler has missed their ideal sleep window and is overtired

Seeking more attention

Starts rubbing eyes

Lots of crying or really hyper

Starts staring and zoning out

Yawning

Meltdowns and tantrums  

Loses interest in toys and people

Getting a little fussy

Difficult to settle and resisting sleep

 

Grizzling/crying

Demanding more comfort than usual


⁠We hope the sleepy cues help to get your little one off to sleep more easily. If you unsure about your little ones sleep needs or what their age appropriate awake windows might be, the team at Slumber & Sprout have a Scheduling Guide covering ages 1 month to 5 years. Grab it here

 

 

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